A safe, anonymous platform where women find resources, share their truth, and find community after assault. No judgment. No barriers. No silence.
Name Him Please is built on three commitments — resources, voice, and sisterhood. Together, they create the space so many women have never had.
Reporting guides by state, legal aid directories, crisis hotlines, and step-by-step next-steps tools — all in one place, all free.
Explore Resources →Share your experience anonymously. Your words matter. Your truth heals — you and others. Moderated with care and privacy at the center.
Share Your Story →Women supporting women — a moderated space for healing, next steps, and solidarity. You are never alone in this.
Join The Circle →Finding help should never be hard. We've organized everything you need — from the moment it happens to years down the road.
Every resource is vetted, free, and organized by what you need right now.
Free, confidential support 24/7. Connect with a trained staff member at a local sexual assault service provider.
Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) →Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a Crisis Counselor. Free, confidential, 24/7.
Text Now →1-800-799-7233. Support for those experiencing relationship violence, available day and night.
Call Now →Prefer to type? Connect with a trained staff member in a private online chat — no phone call needed.
Start Chat at RAINN.org →All stories are 100% anonymous. Choose a category, write as much or as little as you want, and submit. Your submission is reviewed by our team before being shared in the community.
The Circle is our moderated community space — a place to find solidarity, ask questions, share resources, and be held by women who understand.
These lines are free, confidential, and available around the clock. You don't have to be in immediate danger to call — reach out anytime.
Free, confidential support 24/7 from a trained staff member at your local sexual assault service provider.
Free, confidential crisis counseling via text. No phone call needed. 24/7.
💬 Text HOME to 741741Support for those experiencing domestic or relationship violence. Safe, confidential, 24/7.
📞 Call 1-800-799-7233Experiencing emotional distress or a mental health crisis? Call or text 988 anytime.
📞 Call or Text 988Confidential referrals for all types of victimization. Free, available now.
📞 Call 1-855-4-VICTIMReporting is always your choice. Here are your options — no matter where you are in your decision.
Your health comes first. Go to your nearest ER or call 1-800-656-HOPE to find a local Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE).
Try not to shower, change clothes, or clean up before a medical exam. Save any texts, emails, or screenshots.
You have the right to report — and the right not to. Find state reporting options at RAINN.org.
A trained victim advocate can walk through every step with you — for free. Call RAINN at 1-800-656-4673.
You have legal rights. These organizations help you understand and exercise them — at no cost to you.
Free legal information for survivors. State-specific guides and an email hotline staffed by attorneys.
🌐 womenslaw.orgEvery state has a fund covering medical bills, counseling, and lost wages. No conviction required.
🌐 Find Your State ProgramFree civil legal assistance including protective orders, housing rights, and employment protections.
🌐 lawhelp.orgIf assaulted on campus, find your Title IX coordinator and understand your rights as a student.
🌐 knowyourix.orgHealing is not linear. These resources meet you wherever you are in your journey.
Trauma-informed therapists offering sessions at $30–$80 for those who can't afford standard rates.
🌐 openpathcollective.orgLicensed therapists available via messaging, phone, or video. Financial aid available for those who qualify.
🌐 betterhelp.comA peer support community for survivors of rape and sexual abuse. Safe, moderated, free.
🌐 aftersilence.orgFind free or low-cost mental health treatment centers near you. Available 24/7.
📞 Call 1-800-662-4357If you are still in contact with or near your abuser, these steps can help keep you safer right now.
Need help building a personalized safety plan?
📞 Call the National DV Hotline — 1-800-799-7233